Wedding planning checklist A step-by-step wedding planning checklist, from setting the budget to the final week before the big day. 12 MONTHS BEFORE - Agree on a total budget and who is contributing what - Set a rough guest count - Choose a date, with one or two backup dates - Book the ceremony and reception venues - Decide on the style and season of the wedding - Start a shared document for vendor quotes and contracts 9 TO 10 MONTHS BEFORE - Book the photographer and videographer - Book the caterer or confirm the venue menu options - Book the officiant or confirm civil ceremony requirements and paperwork - Hire a band, DJ or playlist plan for the reception - Reserve a block of rooms for out-of-town guests - Send save-the-dates 6 TO 8 MONTHS BEFORE - Choose the wedding party and ask them - Shop for wedding attire for both partners - Order the wedding rings - Book the florist or decide on decorations - Book transport for the day - Plan the honeymoon and check passport validity 3 TO 5 MONTHS BEFORE - Order and send formal invitations with a reply-by date - Taste the menu and choose the cake - Book hair and makeup and schedule a trial - Plan the ceremony order, readings and music - Arrange rentals: tables, chairs, lighting, linens - Start the seating plan draft 1 TO 2 MONTHS BEFORE - Chase outstanding RSVPs - Confirm final guest count with the caterer - Finalize the seating plan and print place cards - Confirm timings and arrival times with every vendor - Write vows and speeches - Do the final attire fitting - Apply for the marriage licence or complete legal requirements in your area THE WEEK BEFORE - Pay the final vendor balances and prepare tip envelopes - Pack for the honeymoon - Send the day-of schedule to the wedding party and family - Assign someone to handle questions and last-minute issues on the day - Prepare a day-of emergency kit: sewing kit, pain relief, stain remover, tape - Deliver decorations, signs and favours to the venue THE DAY ITSELF - Eat a proper breakfast and drink water - Bring the rings, licence and vendor contact list - Hand the payment envelopes to a trusted person - Take group photos while everyone is present - Make sure someone takes gifts and cards home safely AFTER THE WEDDING - Return rented items and attire - Send thank-you notes - Order the marriage certificate copies you need - Update names and addresses on documents if needed - Back up and share the photos and video